11. BETROTHALS (Desponsatio).
Betrothals and nuptials (1111-1192 [CL 295-314]).
Selective choice belongs to the man, and not to the woman (1113-1117 [CL 296]).
The man ought to court and to solicit the woman respecting marriage with himself, and not the woman the man (1118-1121 [CL 297]).
The woman ought to consult her parents, or those who are in place of parents, and deliberate with herself, before she consents (1122-1125 [CL 298, 299]).
After a declaration of consent, pledges are to be given (1126-1128 [CL 300]).
Consent is to be confirmed and established by solemn betrothal (1129-1136 [CL 301]).
By betrothal the internal man of each is formed for conjugial love (1136-1140 [CL 301, 302]).
Causes (1139 [CL 301, 302]).
By betrothal the mind of one is conjoined to the mind of the other, so that a spiritual marriage takes place before the natural and bodily (1141-1150 [CL 303]).
This is the case with those who think chastely concerning marriage; it is otherwise with those who think unchastely (1150, 1151 [CL 304]).
Within the time of betrothal it is not allowable to be joined corporeally (1151-1156 [CL 305]).
After the completion of the period of betrothal nuptials ought to take place (1157-1160 [CL 306]). (See NUPTIALS.)